Saturday 19 February 2011

!!! Natal chart !!!

Moon in Aquarius

Sun in Aries
Mercury in Aries

Venus in Taurus (Love) (Taurus ruled by Venus)
Mars in Taurus (Sexuality)
Chiron in Taurus

North Node in Gemini

Pluto in Libra
Saturn in Scorpio

Jupiter in Sagittarius (Sagittarius ruled by Jupiter)
Uranus in Sagittarius
Neptune in Sagittarius



Born on Thursday morning. So it's either a day of Mercury (before 6:23am GMT )or Jupiter (After 6:23am GMT)

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Moon in the First House
Mercury in the Third House
Venus in the Third House
Mars in the Third House
Saturn in the Ninth House
Jupiter in the Tenth House
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Mercury in Aries 

Mercury in Aries communicators make quick decisions--so quick that you might think they don't much like thinking things over. The truth is, Aries communicators don't have a lot of patience for mulling. Their decisions are often driven by the need for instant gratification. 
Mercury in Aries men and women are generally quick and to the point in their communications. They are direct and candid, and some may even think their style is crude at times. At times, they can come across as downright aggressive, but that usually happens when they encounter opposition to their opinions and ideas. It is generally a result of frustration, because Mercury in Aries almost childishly assumes that others will accept their opinions smoothly. There is a sensitivity and defensiveness to Aries, and when Mercury is placed in the sign, natives tend to be quite personally attached to their ideas.
These people have a tendency towards streamlined learning. They prefer not to get bogged down in details, and are adept at dismissing what they feel are irrelevant details. 
There's a certain innocent charm to Aries communicators. Many will appreciate this sign's utilitarian approach. You can pretty much count on them being straight with you, even if their Sun Sign is the more indirect Pisces. 
This Mercury position favors starting new things. Aries is not attached to outdated ideas, and generally adopts an enthusiastic style. Criticism or negative feedback can be taken personally. Still, they are not afraid of a fight or a challenge, on a mental level. They have a visionary intelligence that is sometimes on the idealistic side.
New projects and ideas are taken on with an unmatched enthusiasm with this position of Mercury. However, because there is no shortage of new ideas in life, Mercury in Aries natives can be quick to dump one mental pursuit, way of thinking, or opinion for something fresher and more exciting.
Mercury in Aries people are often excellent at promoting their new ideas. When they're excited about something, their style of communication can be so motivating and fun, the enthusiasm is downright infectious. Aries is a leader, quick to adopt absolutely new and innovative methods--they get a rise out of leading too! 
If the Sun Sign is in Pisces or Taurus, these people can sometimes wonder why others get frustrated with them. The truth is, they may come across as more brusque and impatient than they actually are. Mercury in Aries natives make quick decisions, and they don't always understand it when others hedge issues or stay "on the fence". 



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When Venus or Mars is in Taurus,
the sexual nature involves all of the senses. Touch and smell are supremely important to these lovers. These are the most physical of sexual partners. No frills sex is quite fine, as long as the mood is right and there is plenty of physical contact. These lovers don't have a reputation for spontaneity or variety, but they are good at what they do nonetheless, simply because they are truly right there with you. Abstaining from sex is especially difficult for Taurus, so finding a regular sex partner is particularly important. Their sexual stamina during love-making is long-lasting and steady. Although generally patient, their style is natural and physical, and intellectualizing the sex act would only serve to baffle Taurus.


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Jupiter in the Tenth House: can give you luck here whether you want it or not. Years ago, I read an article by Robert Raymond Shanks in American Astrology magazine where he told about a professional football player whose mother left him a chain of beauty parlors. He couldn’t sell them because they were making too much money, but they totally ruined his macho image. Shanks used this as an example of how Jupiter in the tenth house can get you into a career that you may not like but you can’t get out of because it is too lucrative. My own experience with observing this placement is that it can make the boss and powerful people in general, like you a lot. They will do things for you that they wouldn’t do for others and there is no apparent reason for this other than that Jupiter is the traditional planet of "good luck". Specific Jupiter occupations run the gamut from professor, preacher, and philosopher (Jupiter rules the sign of Sagittarius, sign of religion, philosophy, and higher education) to high finance (Jupiter rules anything large and expansive), to any occupation involving world travel.


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Jupiter in Sagittarius: gives luck with a good chance that it will be blown through overconfidence. The astrologer Rod Chase gave a lecture on Jupiter and mentioned that two of his cousins had it place in Sagittarius. The first had it in House number seven, the marriage house. She was married three times, and this in an old-line Southern family where no one got divorced even once. The other cousin had that Sagittarius Jupiter placed in the eighth house, which rules, among other things, sex and inheritance. She inherited over $100,000 and blew it all within two years.


Jupiter in Sagittarius individuals attract the most good fortune when they are open-handed and generous, tolerant, inspirational, and practice what they preach. They need only believe in themselves and their goals, show their enthusiasm to learn and to teach, and look at the big picture. They can find success in travel, education, teaching, sports, publishing, and foreign cultures.
As a Fire sign Jupiter, you identify strongly with your own opinions, beliefs, and perceptions, and you may take it quite personally if others disagree with them! You make your own opportunities, and you are at your best when you are thinking in big terms, taking calculated risks, and displaying confidence.
Better times of any year for you to realize your goals include when the Sun is in your Jupiter sign, Sagittarius, and when the Sun is in fellow Fire Signs, Aries and Leo. See the table below for when these periods occur each year.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/jupiterinsigns.html


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From www.mindfire.ca




SATURN IN SCORPIO 
Keynote: Power derives from control of the basic forces of nature.
Symbol: A nuclear reactor is heavily encased with lead.
The seriousness of Saturn blends naturally with the secretiveness of Scorpio. Saturn gives the restraint to keep secrets so that a reserved exterior may conceal an active inner life. The character is deep, subtle, masterful, and difficult to fathom.
Since Scorpio's co-ruler, Pluto, is lord of the underworld, and Saturn rules the mineral kingdom, this combination can produce the would-be plutocrat who endeavors to gain control over a substantial share of the earth's resources. A knack for business and finance may pay off handsomely, especially if investments are made in mines, oil wells, and "the excremental industries" which break down substances and produce waste products which must be disposed of.
The ambition to make money is fed by a desire for the control money brings. The ability to influence people by pulling strings behind the scenes leads by slow, persistent, and indirect stages to the attainment of the power sought.
Often these individuals would rather work deviously than take straightforward action. They make effective detectives and espionage agents who, despite their extreme caution, do not avoid danger. The enemy is ruthlessly tracked down, whether this be a criminal, a psychoneurosis, a flaw in a machine, the germ of a disease, a fallacy in a theory, or an error in reasoning. They will continue analyzing and testing in a dogged, impersonal way until the culprit is exposed.
Saturn in Scorpio can denote emotional repressions and deep psychological complexes relating to financial security, sex, and the disposal of wastes.
In Scorpio, Saturn's chilling influence tends to freeze the surface of the emotions and thwart the fires of Mars. There is an aversion to betraying personal feelings even when the inner life is in turmoil. These individuals generally prefer to stand silently in the background and observe the fuss and commotion of human affairs without becoming overtly involved. Yet they are keenly perceptive and capable of enforcing their demands once they decide what should be done.
Scorpians seldom play lightly with the affections of others and they expect their own highly sensitive feelings to be treated with respect. In love, their passions are fixed and enduring, but there can be a domineering and jealous insistence upon having their own way.
Intensely proud, though seldom vain, they hate being wrong and like even less to admit it when they are. If deceived by their beloved, they can reveal a streak of cruelty making them capable of premeditated revenge, or they can retreat into a shell and resolve to forgo the uncertain business of love altogether.
Whatever the Saturnian Scorpian does, they usually do purposefully, for they refuse to expend their energies on frivolities. Even when playing a game, they are aware that they are gaining physical and mental prowess. They make it a point to observe their performance closely in order to rectify mistakes others would let pass. This deliberately cultivated awareness often leads to the success they crave.
This position often gives an element of dark, brooding intensity which can make its presence felt even in charts where other indications show extrovert and enthusiastic qualities. There is usually a tremendous sense of purpose and determination, and emotional energy will be generously spent on attaining objectives.
An excellent and shrewd business sense is perhaps one of the most powerful qualities of this Saturn placing. These people can do extremely well in big business or the international money markets. A certain heaviness is usually countered by a marvelously offbeat sense of humor, and in spite of the usual Saturnian caution, often in relation to overspending, Scorpio knows how to live it up and enjoys excellent food and wine.
On the negative side obsessive tendencies are all too likely, with determination becoming extreme stubbornness. Sadly, there is sometimes a rather cruel streak; once really set on achieving a demanding objective, this person may be ruthless in attaining it. One is encouraged to cultivate sympathy and greater consideration of others. Much hard work will be carried out, and an emotional involvement in the profession is often essential - even if the basic motivation is to make money, this is enough to put them on the road to success.
The sex life can be complex: sometimes a full and rewarding expression is inhibited, and as a result the individual can feel dissatisfied in this sphere of life. It may be that Saturn’s inner authoritative voice will instill jealousy and envy, and if this is not fought against with tooth and claw it will have a very negative effect on the personality and, sometimes, physical well-being.



From www.mindfire.ca

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 From www.mindfire.ca

MOON IN AQUARIUS

Keynote: Original and unusual ideas arise out of the unconscious mind.
Symbol: An intelligent woman conducts a panel discussion on television.
Those with this placing are magnetically attractive, yet send out signals suggesting they are cool and distant, and don’t want the rest of us to come too close.(my note – It looks a lot like me L ) It is only when we break through this brittle, bright but some-what frosty barrier that we actually experience the characteristics of the Sun, and eventually the Ascendant, sign. It is as if, in some ways, they are on the defensive, and want to appear enigmatic and mysterious.
The flow of emotion is very controlled, although if anyone needs help they are likely to respond immediately and want to do as much as possible, just like their Aquarius Sun sign cousins. The reasons for helping can be severely practical, and they will at once see a way through any difficulties that may cloud the issue for the person in trouble.
The unpredictability of Aquarius will be seen when they are confronted with any aspect of life that could be considered controversial. The reaction may be totally unexpected, and quite different from what was anticipated. Similarly, they may take an unexpected line of action, on the spur of the moment, that is completely out of character with other areas of their personality. In retrospect, they may have problems attempting to justify this to themselves.
Anything glamorous will strongly appeal. Moon/Aquarius also have a romantic streak. However, this is detached, and the way emotions are expressed, especially in love (as opposed to strong feelings relating to worldly issues) must be assessed from the positions of Venus and Mars.
Originality and often a spark of genius are present. Sudden bright ideas should be acted upon and carried through to completion. If stubbornness is shown in the positions and aspects of the other planets, it could become a serious problem, for it will not blend happily with a tendency to unpredictability. Nervous tension can also cause problems, the likelihood of which will be affected by the influence of Uranus in the birth chart.
The humanitarian qualities of Aquarius, linked with kindness, will be very evident and contribute much that is positive in this individual’s character.
People having the Moon in Aquarius are endowed with the divine gift of imagination. Their capacity to visualize can cause them to fear the worst, but it also gives wings to their inventive genius. They understand the meaning of the axiom ‘Energy follows thought’, and instinctively respect the power of ideas to produce changes in circumstances.
Many of the lunar Aquarian’s most inspired insights come directly from the realm of the unconscious. As they learn to plumb their own psyche, they may release unsuspected creative forces. These images and concepts may take so powerful a grip upon the mind that one begins to feel more like their instrument than their originator.
In the fixed sign Aquarius, the restlessness of the ever-changing Moon is stabilized and its sympathies are broadened. Human inconsistencies can be viewed in a broadly detached manner. Although lunar Aquarians themselves usually appear to be sensible and well-adjusted, they can understand people who are not. Yet they become deeply involved in the causes they espouse and will throw caution to the winds when the necessity arises to voice their opinions.
They are original, not because they say what no one has ever said before, but because they say exactly what they think. Occasionally, they appear more radical than they are, simply because people are not used to such plain speaking.
Since these individuals like to vent unusual ideas, they are often found in professions such as writing, film making, and public relations where they can influence people’s minds. Every so often they like to surprise and shock an audience in order to shake them out of their complacency. They want to jolt others into an awareness of current happenings even though the process may prove painful.
Lunar Aquarians are as broad-minded as their solar counterparts and can apply their scientific personality to the study of human problems. Men of this type tend to hold themselves aloof and are frequently misunderstood. Women may be too intellectual and independent to seem completely feminine unless other influences compensate for the lack of softness in their nature.
Both sexes are liable to suffer from physical and mental tension if they allow themselves to be over-stimulated by the energies which course through their nervous system.
This combination often engenders an interest in astrology, metaphysics, parapsychology, occultism, and all manner of arcane subjects. There is a preoccupation with the strange and unusual, not for the sake of novelty seeking, but because of a genuine desire to understand the whys and wherefores of existence.
The Aquarian seldom accepts the limitations that others take for granted. Their fundamental faith in man and nature assures them that the human mind is capable of uncovering the most startling secrets of the universe, and that nothing is too amazing to be real.
The lunar Aquarian seldom craves to be a master over men. They want to illumine minds not dominate them. They value their liberty too highly to want to interfere with the liberty of someone else.
The Aquarian age has already demonstrated that modern scientific technology can set man free from the drudgery of menial chores and provide the leisure to explore the widening vistas of outer and inner space. It is also demonstrating that true democracy is a system which cannot be sustained by Saturnian laws alone.
Each citizen must undergo a Uranian transformation of mind and heart which enables them, through the planetarization of their consciousness, to envision a society of freely cooperating groups and nations. Only then can the Aquarian ideal become a reality.


  From www.mindfire.ca

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 From www.mira.net
North Node in Gemini
(South Node in Sagittarius?)

Through previous incarnations the soul has acquired an overemphasis of energy in the area of self-righteousness.  An overwhelming need for independent pursuit of philosophical and spiritual enlightenment has led to neglect and lack of connectedness to other humans.
In order to heal this energy imbalance of the soul, Gemini North Node individuals need to focus on reconnecting to others by learning to relate effectively. This process can be assisted by practising and developing active listening skills and openness to the viewpoints and feedback of others.
A tendency to "pontificate" and overlook or dismiss other viewpoints only serves to drive people away and further disconnect Gemini North Node individuals from other humans.  By cultivating a more receptive and less judgmental attitude, these individuals are more likely to create the rapport needed to achieve the appreciation for the knowledge that they so strongly desire to share with others.
A critical lesson that needs to be learnt in this lifetime by Gemini North Node individuals is that a self-righteous attitude regarding having "all the answers" stemming primarily from their intuitive faculties will not suffice to provide the answers that they are seeking in this lifetime.  These individuals need to further expand their perspective on life and their body of wisdom via input of information from others and cooperation with others in dealing with life's issues.
Many events in this incarnation will provide Gemini North Node individuals with the challenge of learning to effectively integrate the energy polarities of  gathering and exchange of information (Gemini North Node) and synthesis of information/wisdom (Sagittarius South Node) in order to attain a true sense of internal harmony which will assist alignment with their spiritual purpose and path.

Planetary Hours and lovely ME

This morning around 2 am I downloaded a very interesting software called "Planetary Hours Software" What it does it shows planetary hour times for any given day or location.
Each day is related to 7 planets: click here for related post
You can download this great software here http://chronosxp.sourceforge.net/en/

So today I decided to start testing myself. Each time I do something different - I look at the program and see how it corresponds with each hour of the day.
So today around 11:15 am I felt like i want to contact my friends: I wrote an email to one friend (11:22am), I sent an sms to another (11:32am).
I was planning to go out , but changed my mind and insted decided to browse internet for articles about witchcraft (12:20pm).

Then when I looked into the program - It was a pleasant surprise:
11:22 and 11:32 was an hour of Mercury (planet of communication)
and 12:20 belonged to the hour of a Moon (planet of all spiriual). Interesting... More tests to follow...


14:07 I was browsing google maps- planning to visit Glastenbury, and when I saw a picture on google map - igot an idea to create my own TravelBlog and upload all photos taken while travelling, in this case photos of Glastenbury.
14:07 was an hour of Jupiter (travel, tourism etc)

Friday 18 February 2011

Planetary Hours

How Are Planetary Hours Calculated?

The planetary rulerships for each day. These rulerships are fixed and don't change:

Monday: Day of the Moon
Tuesday: Day of Mars
Wednesday: Day of Mercury
Thursday: Day of Jupiter
Friday: Day of Venus
Saturday: Day of Saturn
Sunday: Day of the Sun



In the English language, some of the planetary rulerships should be obvious in the name of the days: Saturday, Monday, Sunday. This is true of other languages, too. For example, the Spanish word for Tuesday is "Martes" (Mars.)

Now that we know Monday is the Day of the Moon, we need to know what time the day begins and ends. Is 1:00AM on Monday morning considered to be part of the Day of the Moon? No. The reason is that each planetary day doesn't begin until sunrise, and ends immediately before sunrise the next day. At 1:00AM on Monday morning it is still the Day of the Sun. The Day of the Moon will not begin until sunrise, which as you know changes not only between different locations but also on different days of the year.

Each day is then divided into two parts: day time and night time. Day time is the time between sunrise (when the planetary day begins) and sunset. Night time is the time between sunset and the next day's sunrise (when the planetary day ends, and a new one begins.) Now that we know the day time and night time, we divide these into 12 hours each, for a total of (you guessed it) 24 hours.

Still with me? It gets confusing around this part! Lets re-cap all that we've learned so far with a quick example. Say we live in London, and the date is Monday, June 21st, 2004. The sun rises in London on June 21st at 4:48AM (04:48), and sets at 9:13PM (21:13.) We know that since it is a Monday, the Day of the Moon begins at sunrise that day.

Between 4:48AM and 9:12PM is the day time, and we divide this time by 12 to get the times of the day hours: The first hour is from 4:48AM to 6:09AM, the second hour is from 6:10AM to 7:32AM, and so on. Now we do the same with the night time to get the night hours: Night time lasts from 9:13PM until 4:47AM on Tuesday. By dividing this into 12, we know that the first hour of the night lasts from 9:13PM to 9:49PM, the second hour lasts from 9:50PM to 10:27PM, and so on.

Great, now we know how to figure out the which planet rules which day, when planetary days begin and end, and how to calculate the time that each planetary hour begins. But where do the planetary hour rulerships fit in?

The planet that rules the first hour of each day is always the same as the planet that rules the day. Saturn is always the first planetary hour on the Day of Saturn, Mars is always the first planetary hour of the Day of Mars. At sunrise on Wednesday morning, it will always be the Day of Mercury and Hour of Mercury.

The planetary hours always fall in this order: Venus, Mercury, Moon, Saturn, Jupiter, Mars, Sun... and this order continues infinitely. So if the first hour of the Day of Mercury is the Hour of Mercury, the second hour of this day is the Hour of the Moon.

Lets go back to our London example for a moment. On Monday, June 21st, at 4:48AM the Day of the Moon and Hour of the Moon begin. From 6:10AM to 7:32AM is the Hour of Saturn. Is this not making sense? Just follow the order of the planetary hours:

Moon,
Saturn,
Jupiter,
Mars,
Sun,
Venus,
Mercury,

and keep repeating that until you know the planet that rules each of the 24 hours of each day.

After the planetary hours started to make sense to me, I began to use them in my day to day life. I hope that you, too, will be able to use them as a tool to improve your life!

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Pagan living

Certain types of working can be best suited to the time of year, for instance, spring cleaning is obviously a spring pursuit. Below is a brief outline of the trends for each season.


SPRING = New starts; cleaning the house from top to bottom; making a fresh start; spells to enhance confidence.


SUMMER = The summer is a time for relaxation and meditation.



AUTUMN = Clearing things up; Out with the old; Reassessment time; Remembrance.


WINTER = A time for going within, focusing on yourself, your life, your aims, your dreams and hopes. Work on what is holding you back.

Also during winter the New Year falls. This is a time for new beginnings and divination.

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8 Pagan Festivals (sabats): Wheel of the Year.

Pagans celebrate an 8-fold year Wheel.
The 4 Solar festivals of
Mid-Winter Solstice,
Spring Equinox,
Midsummer Solstice &
Autumn Equinox
are joined by the fire festivals of Imbolc, Beltane, Lammas & Samhain. (Extract taken from www.witchcraftandmagic.org

Spring Eqx -21st March
Spring equinox is a time of new beginning and initiating enterprises. A time of reaching balance between Dark & Light.. day & night. It is a time of noticeable lengthening of day-light hours and quickening. Current observation shows weather to be very changeable – fluctuating between bright sunny days and wild wet windy conditions. Flowers are already blooming, and trees are looking hairy with a burst of newly sprouting buds and leaves. Astrologically, the Sun enters the firey sign of Aries. However transposing the elemental energies onto the year-wheel, it is obviously the energy of `air’ that is flowing now (and at Summer, it’s Fire, Autumn- water, and winter- Earth). Taking all this into consideration, in this ritual, we work actively to balance the opposing forces in our lives, and a bit of personal `spring-cleaning’ internally, then explore the mystery of Spring, through the God-Goddess cycle. Mating and fertility rites are obviously being played out by all wildlife in nature at this moment.

Midsummer - 21st June

Midsummer: This marks the height of the Summer, and the longest day of the year. Astrologically, it is exactly the point when the Sun enters the sign of Cancer (which is the natural house of the Moon!). The new-born Sun of the midwinter (Yule) has grown to it’s fullest potential, and so pagans are mindful at Midsummer that the wheel turns. It is when the previously defeated Holy-King returns, challenges the Oak-King and wins. Thus at Midsummer, the rein of the Oak King ends and the one of Holy King begins. Midsummer games such as tug of war enact this battle between summer and winter forces. In terms of the God myths, it is a time for the God to become Sun-King, and take his place on the throne of responsibility for his people.

Autumn Eqx -21st Sept

Autumn Equinox: This is the time when the wheel turns once more, from summer to winter. A time when the dark equals the light, and the night times begin to increase. Trees begin to shed their leaves in preparation of the coming winter, wildlife collects seeds and stocks up for winter and animal migrations begin. We celebrate the second harvest of the year- the harvest of the fruits. We also mark the balance of dark and light. In Wicca we re-enact the mythology of Hades and Persephone – her abduction, entry to the underworld, Demeter’s anguish and the withdrawal from the land, eating of pomegranate seeds by Persephone and her stay in the underworld. We use a spiral path-working to enter the inner-world, and plant seeds of our future ventures, so that we may nurture them during the winter months. In this ritual, coven members take on the symbolic journey of Persephone.
Samhain -31st Oct

Yule -21st Dec
Winter Solstice is the time when the Sun is at it’s lowest (nadir), resulting in the longest night and darkness appears to be enveloping all. Inwardly, it’s a time when hope and faith may be ebbing low and the future looks bleak. It is precisely at this point that the festive energy is needed to shift the magic within, and to celebrate the birth of the Sun Child! From here onwards, the night time starts to reduce, and daylight grows.. to a point of balance between dark and light (at Spring) and to the long days at Summer! As a symbol of hope and life, celebrants decorate the Altar and indoors with bright objects and keep greenery (ever Greens.. ie Yule tree and of course holly etc). A Yule log is also burnt in the ire, symbolising the coming of warmth and fire.
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Friday 11 February 2011

Law of Attraction - Have You Made Room For It?

The original article is here  http://ezinearticles.com/?Law-of-Attraction---Have-You-Made-Room-For-It?&id=711430
(I made this post so i can can read it anytime i want- in case if the original article gets deleted)



It was a Friday night, almost a year ago, when my best friend and I were sitting on the living room floor in her apartment sharing a pizza and a couple of cold beers. As was customary, the conversation ended up where it did so many times at our little "get togethers". Where was "he" and when was "he" going to show up in her life? The man of her dreams, her future husband.
She had been single for almost two years and we're not talking a little dry spell here, we're talking draught! She hadn't even been asked out on a single date in all that time
When I first started suggesting exercises to her that she could use to attract the man she wanted she had laughed me off. (She always thought me a little strange, but I love her to death.) Finally after about 8 months of absolutely no prospects she was willing to try anything!
We started with the basics. I told her to write down all the things that she was wanting in a new boyfriend. I had her mentally picture being with this wonderful person and laughing with him, confiding in him, trusting him and having fun with him, even though she didn't have anyone particular in mind yet.
But surprisingly (especially to me) nothing had come of it yet. It was something that had really been bugging me because I could not figure out why it wasn't working. She was an attractive girl, intelligent, had a good job, and was a lot of fun to be with. She had been doing the practices on a daily basis (so she says) and still nothing. I just couldn't figure it out -- until that "fateful" Friday evening.
You see the reason we were having our little indoor picnic on her living room floor was because there wasn't anyplace else in her apartment to sit. Everything was covered with shopping bags, clothes, magazines, bills, you name it, it was all over the place. (As great as my friend is, neatness is definitely not one of her strong points.)
So when we got to that usual point in the conversation where she asked yet again "Why can't I just meet him already?! I looked at the chaos around us and jokingly replied "Even if you did, where would you put him?" We both laughed at that for a minute, but I suddenly realized that maybe there was something to that after all.
As much as she always said she was prepared for him to show up - was she really? Where would she put him? Did she even have room for him? Not just in her apartment - but how about her life?
So then I asked her seriously. "Let's say he did appear tomorrow, would you be ready for him? What if he wanted to stay here?"
Her response pretty much told me everything. "Are you kidding? Look around you! I wouldn't let anybody see this place looking like this except you!"
So then I asked "So what would you have to do to be comfortable with him here?"
And the list began. "Well first I would have to obviously clean this place up. I wouldn't want him to think I am a total slob or worse some high maintenance shopaholic. I would have to paint the walls, buy new sheets for the bed unless he's a fan of Hello Kitty. Let's see... new underwear, new nightgown, new robe, I would definitely lose ten pounds because I couldn't walk around naked looking like this..."
The list went on and on. I could barely keep up with her as I grabbed a pen and paper to get it all down. We even decided she would have to make room for him in one of her closets, at least leave him one empty clean drawer in both the bedroom and the bathroom for his things. By the time we were done my hand was cramped from writing so much.
I had suddenly realized that while all of this time she had been saying she was ready for someone to come into her life, the truth was subconsciously she had this incredible list of all the reasons why she wasn't ready or prepared for him to show up. So we decided that the obvious solution was to get her physically as well as mentally prepared for this person to become a reality.
I was glad this conversation took place on a Friday night, because we worked like demons that entire weekend. We found ourselves giggling as we made her place "mate-ready." She even bought "him" a new toothbrush to keep in the bathroom. She actually went as far as considering ordering the sports channel on cable for him - but I talked her out of that one. First, because we didn't even know if he would be a big sports fan, but more importantly, if he was, we didn't want to give him a reason to sit around and watch it all day long.
By the time Sunday night rolled around we were both exhausted but feeling a lot better. Her place never looked better, (I finally got to eat at the table for the first time) and she suddenly did feel that if the man of her dreams showed up tomorrow she would be absolutely prepared for him.
For me it was an eye opening experience because I realized how rarely we pay attention to the little things. We don't notice that we might be saying one thing, but in reality are acting in a completely different manner.
So the question to you is this: Do you have any of these little unconscious things preventing you from receiving what you want? Have you made plans or room for what you desire in your life?
If you want a new house, have you started throwing away the stuff in the old place preparing for the move? If it's a new wardrobe, have you cleaned out your closet to make room for your new items? If it's a relationship, have you starting acting the way you would want your new love to see you? If it's money, have you sat down and decided how you were going to smartly invest the millions coming your way? What charities you will donate to? Have you made an itinerary on your computer of the trips you plan on taking?
Whatever it is that you are wanting, have you taken the physical actions that you would be taking if you already had it?
The Law of Attraction works when you get on the same vibrational level as the thing that you are wanting. So while you should absolutely think great positive thoughts as often as possible, definitely say affirmations to get it into your subconscious, positively be grateful for all you currently have...you should also take some physical action to show Universe that you are so sure it is on its way to you, that you are already physically preparing for it.
Oh, and by the way, in case you wanted to know what happened with my girlfriend. She met "him" about a month and a half later. She probably would have met him sooner but that's how long it took for her to lose those pesky 10 pounds. (Our Friday night beer and pizza nights probably didn't help.) They are now happily engaged and he has moved in. Why? Because now he has some room to!
So do not only tell Universe that you are ready for what you are wanting, show it and act as if it is already here! Now that's what getting in alignment is all about.
Happy Creating!
Janeen Clark is a Spiritual Life Coach who has been teaching, studying and applying the Law of Attraction for over 15 years. For more articles or information from this author please visit her website at http://www.myspace.com/theveryhappyhuman



Coincidence

A coincidence is the occurring of an event in conjunction with any some conditions, e.g. another event. As such, a coincidence occurs when something uncanny, accidental and unexpected happens under conditions named, but not under a defined relationship  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coincidence


MY STORY N1
11 Feb 2011 at 23:10
I haven't been on a facebook for about 2 weeks, and today i decided to check out what's going on there - any new messages etc. I noticed a profile of my friend "A" and checked if she has any new pics- she always has something cool there. The first album was "Mobile uploads". I noticed a photo of her and her new boyfriend. He is nice , but 15 years older then her. At that point i thought: "hmm, i think my friend "A" deserves somebody better then him"
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1 hour later:                         12 Feb 2011 00:14 I received a call from "A" . She was crying, very upset - she had an argument with her boyfriend. She asked me if she can stay a night in my place - I said - sure, come. 
She was having a dinner with her bf in a restaurant. As "A" is very good looking and happy person- she always attracts attention from men and women. That evening same happened- she was feeling happy, excited, and her bf didn't like that. After a dinner they had an argument on their way home in a cab.

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My assumptions about this story are:
at 23:10 i sent my thought to the universe
"A" and her bf started argument start to build up at the same time - after 11pm.
I didn't mean to create a negative energy.  "A" is a great person and i would never wish anything bad to her - only good wishes.

Coincidence???

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MY STORY N2
3rd of February 2011
I was suppose to have a date with a guy I met on Internet  few weeks ago.
He lives in different city, and comes to my city from time to time. So when he offered to meet up on Thursday 7pm- I agreed.
Just before that Thursday I got ill - sore throat, high temperature, headache etc (Tuesday).
I took lots of medicine and on Thursday I was feeling better , but still had a very painful sore throat.
I wasn't feeling full of energy, but didn't want to cancel our meeting as he might think that i'm trying to avoid him, and also he booked restaurant with a evening show. So I decidednot to cancel our meeting.
Thursday morning - I felt exhausted, lazy, no desire to go out of my flat at all.

I started getting ideas in my mind that - would be great if the guy could come up with some sort of excuse.

And guess what: Thursday around 3pm i got an sms from the guy , saying that he is in hospital with broken leg.
His friend who is in London with him cannot collect tickets, so if I want - I can go to his hotel and collect tickets for the show.

I was shocked.....

My assumptions about this story are:
1) The guy chenged his mind about meeting me and made an excuse.
1) I can make things happen ! (well, very unlikely. 1st one sounds much more realistic. But hey, you never know :( )
Again i produced a negative energy into universe- and it happened - i didn't mean it - but it happened.

Coincidence???

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MY Story N3 or "Law of Attraction - Have You Made Room For It?
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19 Jan 2010    Unbelievable inspiration and motivation - after reading this article http://ezinearticles.com/?Law-of-Attraction---Have-You-Made-Room-For-It?&id=711430

I started cleaning living room- imagining that someone was suppose to visit me- and in few hours- the door bell rung- neighbour stuck in a lift- and I went to open the door for people from Fire Brigade.
Then engineer arrived to repair lift- and when he was going downstairs- one of my neighbours that I fancy alot - lets call him "F" was coming up- engineer stood for a moment on 4rth floor and "F" passesd by him, then engineer came over to my door and i went out- "F" kept his door open and heard me talking to engineer- after engineer left- "F" knocked at my door and said that he heard my voice and came to say "Hi"

So here we are! My energy was soooo high that it made all these things happen just only because i wanted that the person i like, to visit me :)  :)  :)  Lovely !!!! Thank you universe for this gift ! :)


Coincidence???
Hmm, very UNlikely in this case!!!

According to Joel Hipps from the Southern California Psychic Institute:

    "Seriousness is a very low vibration (ex you are depressed, nothing is working etc)
    AMUSEMENTS are very HIGH vibrations. If you think back over your life – where did you have a hard    time? It wasn’t when you were having fun, it was when you were taking things seriously.
    And so on energy level - if you want to start to move more into the direction you like to, you have to get    out of the serious part and start to get into amusement and then that allows the energy to flow much more    and allows you to get to what you’re trying to get much easier, because you don’t get .stuck when you’re having fun................. you get stuck when you stop having fun."
     Watch this video on youtube:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmrWQkeNr4s    1:25-2:11

So all that excitement, happy music made the energy flow and help me to get what i wanted much easier :)
Here we are. Be happy and have fun! :)



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